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Section: Moadim   Category: Weekly Sefirah Diary
Week 2: Real Gvura - Lifting Dead Weight
When I was a child I learned the famous mishna. "Who is a strong man? He who conquers his yetzer hara." While I paid lip service to this "mussar" ideal, in the depths of my heart I had a much grander visions of Gvura.

Now after spending some 15,000 odd mornings trying to get out of bed I now know the truth, that lifting the covers takes much more strength than to carry your daughters overstuffed suitcase to the airport as she goes off to Israel for the year. Lifting a pen to write a check can also be quite strenuous. So can lifting the receiver to call to say hello to your mother (and certainly mother-in-law). Sometimes putting things down can take quite an effort as well, like our fork at a sumptuous meal. Closing a newspaper and taking out a sefer can sometimes be more stressful than closing on a house and taking out a mortgage. Doing twenty pushups is often easier than curling the end of our lips and smiling at someone.

The Vilna Gaon in his peirush on Mishlei says that the reason why a person is put on this world is to break his middos. Life is granted to a person in order to perform the mitzvos he is least inclined to do. He is given a personality and told not to dare come back home to Shamayim with that same personality. He must break his habits and rectify his negative character traits. This is a lifetime struggle.

The Gemara in Bava Metzia (32b) says that if you have a choice between helping an enemy load packages onto his donkey or help your friend unload his donkey that is suffering under its load you should help your enemy even though causing an animal pain may be an aveira di'oraisa. Why the Gemara asks? Because it is better to conquer your inclination and overcome your disdain for your enemy even at the expense of causing Tzaar Baalei Chaim.

Some of the most famous and most accomplished men in history lost it all for nothing other than lack of self control that ultimately did them in. Self discipline and control are real strength. Whether its personal goals, ideals, or social behavior that we'd like to abide by, this is the week we work on it. Perfect timing for our post Yom Tov diet!

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