Questioner: Is there a Chiyuv to do Gemilus Chesed and help out Goyim? For example you see him lost and looking for directions. Should you go over to him and help him find his way?
Rav Shlomo Zalman: Yes there is an Inyan of Darkei Sholom.
Q: What if he didn't ask you and there is no issue of Darkei Sholom, should you go over to volunteer help?
RSZ: Yes you can go over and help him.
Q: Is this because Derech Eretz Kodma LaTorah?
RSZ: I don't know what it is because of but you need to be a mentch (Ben Adam).
Q: I know I am allowed to help, but should I help?
RSZ: Yes, you should help him.
See also Rambam Hilchos Melachim Perek 10 on the proper behavior of Bnei Avrohom (Aleihu Lo Yibol YD 12)
Editors Note: Rav Shlomo Zalman like all great tzaddikim never did, said, or thought anything unless it was Daas Torah. Emotions, politics, and cultural influences did not enter the realm of his decision making beyond the extent that Daas Torah considered these factors (which it does when warranted). In this vane Rav Shlomo Zalman's psak that you must be a mentch was not a feel good or PR psak.
The conclusion drawn here is that being a mench is Daas Torah and even comes before the Torah (See Shaarei Kedusha from Rav Chaim Vital). Therefore Chesed to Goy should be performed with the same "L'Shem Yichud" that you would say with any other Mitzva or else you have missed the point.
Disclaimer: We try to convey the Tshuva to the best of our ability. We admit that our understanding may not be accurate. Please also understand that this Tshuva may not be the final word on this topic. One should consult a Rav before drawing any conclusions.
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