Section: Daily Reminder Category: Zechiras Miriam
|Shidduch Crisis Or Perfect Match?|
|There are times during a
Shidduch when less than the whole truth about the boy is relayed to the
girls side. Sometimes he is not as big a learner as he is made out to
be, or maybe he has other clear shortcomings. The halachos of when you
may tell the other side is fraught with complications and this should
be done only after consulting with a Halachic authority.|
One thing interesting that the Chofetz Chaim says (Hilchos Rechilus Tziur 3) that is worth knowing. You can't look at the situation from one side only. It is very possible that the other side also has their own little secrets that not everyone knows. In that case it is forbidden to tell them anything, because now it is a perfect match!
"Zachor Eis Asher Asa Hashem L'Miriam BaDerech B'Tzaischem MiMitzrayim"
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